Guest post

When your new to the blogging world its always nice for someone to give you a helping hand. I’ve never had a guest post before so I’m delighted to have one today!

John is a new Daddy blogger and has written a great post about hearing loss in children

The Difficulties of Hearing Loss in Children

Many people take hearing for granted until they lose it. Some people never have a chance to appreciate hearing in the first place. Although a lot of people think of the elderly when thinking of hearing loss, many children suffer from hearing loss as well. Some are born with hearing loss, while others develop it over time. A recent study indicates that roughly eight percent of Americans with severe to profound hearing loss are under 18 years of age. Further studies also indicate that around 15 percent of children between the ages of six and 19 have some hearing loss with either high or low frequencies.

In the real world where statistics are no more than numbers and children live with conditions such as hearing loss, children with hearing loss struggle developmentally and academically. Many of them have difficulty learning to talk or how to pronounce new words. Academically, they often struggle with grammar, word choice and vocabulary. To make things worse, these children are often picked on by others because of their disability.

 

Many people with hearing loss, including children, can benefit from hearing aids. These devices contain small amplifiers that increase sound. The vibrations are then transported directly into a wearer’s inner ear. Although most hearing aid users must work through a period of adjustment as they learn to sort through and interpret the new sounds they can now hear, many hearing-impaired individuals reap benefits from hearing aids.  Sometimes depending on the severity of the hearing loss, hearing aids may not be a suitable solution and in that case some people make look towards cochlear implants.  

Some hearing-impaired individuals rely on non-verbal communication to express themselves and interact with others. Sign language is used by many children with hearing loss. They utilize this complex system of hand gestures to speak in the same way other children speak verbally.

Despite the adversity experienced by hard-of-hearing children, success is possible. Many famous historical characters such as famous classical composer Ludwig Beethoven were hearing impaired. Actress Marlee Matlin lost nearly all her hearing when she was only 18 months old. Her family supported and encouraged her as she followed her dreams. She has won both an Oscar and a Golden Globe.

Nick Hamilton, who experienced severe hearing loss after being diagnosed with a rare hearing condition at age three, didn’t stop at playing baseball while attending Kent State during college. In 2012, he was drafted by the Cleveland Indians. Today, he makes use of his lip-reading skills as well as hand gestures to communicate with team members and coaches during games. 

Although childhood hearing loss comes with challenges to be overcome, it doesn’t have to be a tragedy. If your child is affected by this ailment, help him or her learn to make the best of the situation. Teach your child about heroes of yesterday and today who have overcome hearing problems. With a little education and support anything is possible. Success comes to those who believe in themselves and reach for it.

 

Hi my name is John O’Connor, I am a father, outdoorsman, sports enthusiast and passionate about living a healthy lifestyle.  Check out my new blog at bloggingwjohno.blogspot.com!

Naturalis

Saturday we spent the morning at Naturalis National history museum in Leiden. It was about 40 minute drive away and yourself truly drove us there and got us there in one piece.

It was a really great day, LPV enjoyed but I do have to say that I think even at almost 3 he’s was a weeshy bit too young for some of it, however he has a fab time running about. its’ about 5 floors of various exhibits my personal favourite was the human body exhibit. There’s lots of interaction and has a whole sensory section for children of all ages, LPV love this and especially loved collecting the nectar from the flowers as it made a slurping sound.

collecting Nectar

collecting Nectar

I absolutely loved feeding the animals with LPV, this are mechanical animals and you pick up various items of food and try to feed them, if it’s right they open their mouth if it’s wrong they shake their heads.

Frog like the bugs

Frog like the bugs

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There’s a great section on fossils, animals, planets all with button to push, levers to pull, phones to pick up. at the risk of sounding like a dodgy holiday commercial, it really was fun for all the family.. Apart from Miss C puking all over me but that a whole other story!! It was recommended to me by the expat group I’m a member of, who also go regularly unfortunately it’s not somewhere I could take both children as LPV is like a grey hound chasing a rabbit but Id’ certainly return there again and will be taking Gma & Gdad when they visit us soon.

Here’s a few more pics of our fun

Me after weight watchers?

Me after weight watchers?

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gotta love a bit of DNA

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Animals were fab

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He’s braver than me, this things scare me

Treading water

Quick, quick I have to type quickly…..You see I’ve managed to get both children to sleep at the same time, both in their beds, at the same time….AT THE SAME TIME!!!!!!

So how have you been, well as the title explains I’ve been treading water in this pool if parenthood. having two children is hard, fantastic but hard. It’s mainly finding a schedule that fits with us all which is the hard part but it will happen over time I guess.

I’ve been brave tho, I’ve attempted outings with the two…..on the bus aswell…I know!!!! One was a success one was an absolute disaster which ended in me muttering to myself all the way home about how much I hate this country and being an expat!! When things go wrong I always blame the country I’m in… It’s an automatic response, and as for hating a being an expat? I just go home and go to my local Asda full of pyjama wearing shoppers and then I love it again. Don’t get me wrong, I love Asda im not Asda bashing I’m shopping in Pyjamas bashing!!!

Well since my last post, we had Miss C christened, which was a truly awesome day, so lovely to have all the family together, plus having our dear friends over from the  United States was the icing on the christening cake so to speak. Miss C was an angel all day and looked absolutely beautiful (as usual) in her christening gown. We got to show our friends round Cork as we were so unbelievably lucky with glorious weather for the entire time in Ireland. For those of you who haven’t been to Ireland this is an extremely rare occurence, which is such a shame as in the sunshine the country is truly magnificent.

We’ve also brought Miss C home to her hood!!! Brissle man!!! She had her first trip home to Bristol, via the channel tunnel. She’s so well-traveled already, I’m so proud of my children both survived a 10 journey in the car with minimal moaning. Every parent is proud of their children but its  absolutely amazing when strangers approach you and compliment them. This happened to us in Reading services, a woman approached EPD and said she’d been watching Miss C and thought she was the cutest baby ever……..she is!!!

Next when we packing up to continue our journey and elderly couple said out of the blue “you should be proud of him, he’s an amazing child, so intelligent” we said thank you and that we were, they kept us chatting for ages about LPV the lady said that she was a retired peadiatrician and thought he was amazing at how he spoke, acted and inquisitive about his surroundings. I just absolutely beamed with pride, we’ve been experiencing some bad terrible two’s with him so this gave me such a boost that I’m not doing such a bad job after all. A friend posted a blog post the other day about how we’re all so negative a parenting. Yes it is hard, sometimes I want to run for the hills and cry but it made me think about how I should focus on something positive each day. Take today for instance, they both went to sleep at the same time, to get Miss C sleeping in her cot is an achievement ok it didn’t last long *she currently in her swing crying* am I a bad mammy for still typing? No I’m not going there, she’s been fed, changed, cuddled, played with, what she needs is a long sleep!! Also LPV and I had a great game of Gruffalo snap after playschool, small things but special things.

So what have been positive parts of your day today??

Anyhoo here’s a wee pictures of our travels to Cork & Miss C’s christeningDSC_0767 DSC_0820 DSC_0824 DSC_0827

LPV was the entertainment, I hope the Corrs are ready cos my wee family are going to kick their musical butts!!

LPV was the entertainment, I hope the Corrs are ready cos my wee family are going to kick their musical butts!!

 

St Patricks day curse

St Patricks day, The Craic, few pints, hangover!! Thats what its all about isn’t. Thats what it used to be about anyway, however you’ve two little sprogits the only craic you want is something to get you through an episode of Mister maker!!

As we are taking Miss C back to th homeland to be christened in April we were summoned to our local church for Kindviering “a children’s celebration” so the priest could allow us to get her christened, I know it’s ridiculous! Anyway it’s started off well, until LPV got ants in his pants and wanted to walk around, at this point I have to say we had attended a service that was completely in Dutch and considering I end up tell a waitress that I AM coffee not I want coffee, you can imagine there wasn’t an awful lot to be understood.
Any good catholic will tell you about the old “peace be with you” section of mass, if I’m honest I hate this part, it gives me the giggles. I alway remember my uncle who instead of saying peace be with you wished everyone a Merry Christmas.
EPD had taken LPV for a stroll around church and left me on my own to deal with the Dutch service. Blah blah, and a Dutch dude goes to shake my hand……with a vacant look on my face I practically shout “oh right, peace be with you”. Everyone stares and I curse EPD for leaving me.
Mass comes to an end and before we leave we say goodbye like good little church folk, the priest tells us it was nice to meet us and proceeded to tell us a story that terrified me to my core.

Priest: Happy St Patricks day
Us: Thank you Fr
Priest: You remind me of another couple I met on St Patricks a few yrs ago
Us: Really
Priest: Yes, they were English speakers, he was English, she was Scottish. Lovely couple, however he was murdered in a park over there *points in the direction of our house*
Us: *awkward smiles on outside, shits self on the inside*
Priest: you’ll be fine tho

I don’t think I’ll ever get used to the tactless, blunt matter if fact way of the Dutch, however if I didn’t look back on this conversation and laugh, I’d be crying hysterically.

Anyway I’m off to check all the doors are locked so we don’t become a case load for CSI Haarlem, how did your St Pats go?